Mold Me Baby
I stopped trying to find my dream woman years ago. When I say dream, I mean looking for a particular woman, in another woman. For instance, I’m pretty sure it’s impossible to find a Jada or Halle or whatever perfect “wife” role they played in a movie in another woman somewhere on the social scene. Right now, whenever I see a woman that I might take interest to, I take her for what she is. I always start with a clean slate when I start a new relationship even if I see some of the old qualities within a new girl. My friend Charles says that there are qualities that should go across the board. However, woman aren’t pre-packaged. I don’t want them to be. That’s boring and it halters the “growing together” process that I yearn for. As we all grow, we all mature and gain wisdom into how to treat and maintain a relationship. If a woman were perfect when she came up to me, I married her, had dinner prepared when I came home, soccer mom, whatever, I would honestly be bored out of my mind. I think a lot of men are miserable that way and I honestly believe in this day and age, the housewife role should be abolished. I know some of my male friends would disagree with my last statement but in the back of their minds they silently agree.
I agree with majority of the statments listed, especially that of a housewife. I think some qualities are across the board, but it varies based on the guy. Example: We all want our significant other to be attractive, however individuals have different ideas of what attractive is. The qualities are broad for a reason, when you try to define them things get complicated. I’d potentially marry a white girl lol
[...] the L and say that I’m slightly a hypocrite for this post. A while back I wrote a post called Mold Me Baby, where I said I don’t use a standard base of criteria when looking for a significant other. [...]