Sorry to blame it on you.

Recently, a lot of females have been asking me why I don’t have a girlfriend. Usually I answer with a simple “I don’t know”. It wasn’t until recently that I actually started to give some thought to a logical answer. It’s actually a combination of a few things. One, I can’t always have what I want. Ha, even though I’ve realized that what I wanted, isn’t what I needed. Second, it seems that nowadays, even with many girls interested in becoming my significant other, none really distinguish themselves as a standout. At least in my eyes. Who’s bringing these girls up? None, really exhibit what many people like to call “wifey” qualities. It’s in the small details that really impress me. Just those little things that let me know you care or you’ve taken notice to how I feel about certain things. I haven’t really experienced this from any particular female. It’s not completely the female’s fault either. Half of it is on me. Sometimes, I just don’t want one and other times I’m not ready. Mentally that is. I can be changed though, easily once I get a sliver of those wifey qualities i yearn for.