I don’t love ‘em, I fuck ‘em

So Kelz and I we’re having a short little BB Messenger convo about emotionally unattached men. She was saying that a guy’s feeling for a girl could be mutual but he avoids her on certain emotional levels. Over the last few months as my friends get older they start thinking that they need to settle down and blah blah blah / “American dream” it up, however it seems as though that the people who look like they have their lives together can’t experience the mind-blowing love that has been exposed to them. They get involved with these partners and wind up putting way too much in and not getting a damn thing out of it. Especially the females, who use the oldest trick in the book. You can’t ask a guy who you JUST FINISHED HAVING SEX WITH to be your boyfriend. It’s not happening. This is not “The Wood”. Seeing as how my friends are a majority young, successful, African-Americans I would kind of expect that behavior. Men have that kind of Spartan mentality. No emotions given whether it be within love or war.
Why doesn’t he want to be your boyfriend? Because he’s either insecure about you and just isn’t telling you, or it’s probably just you. Maybe all you do is have sex, which is really building your wifey points, not. Maybe you gave it up too early, or perhaps you only come by past midnight. What kind of example are you setting? All while he high-fives his best friend commenting on your head game.
Don’t get me wrong, I would jump on the opportunity of true love but let’s all do it the right way, and we’re all smart enough to know which way that is. To help the ladies out, I told myself I would stop having sex until I’m married so that I can develop something real with one person. I’m not saying sex corrupts, but you have to see what’s marketed to males. Pimps and players and every man wants to bask in the glory of that mentality if only for a little while. Tragic thing about it is, once you go head in, he basks in that glory, sometimes.